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I spent my twenties doing a lot - I got married, I had my first baby and then my second. I bought a house and renovated it, twice. I finally took a flight to America and visited Walt Disney World. I overcame anxieties. I managed to find myself a hobby that I stuck with and became passionate about and I even managed to turn that hobby (this blog) into a living that has allowed me to work completely for myself - a complete dream come true.

Reflecting on my twenties reminds me how much I've done and how much I've achieved. Especially considering that I started my twenties feeling a little lost and unsure of what I wanted to do work-wise, not knowing if Adam and I would ever like to have children and a little bit unsure of who exactly I was.

And now here I am starting my thirties, and whilst we all know that age is just a number, I do wonder what the next ten years of my life might look like. I can only hope that they might be as wonderful as the previous ten years have been. Perhaps my thirties might be the decade where I discover more about myself and continue to do as I've done during the past year and be less hard on myself about things out of my control.

Today I thought I'd do something a little fun and sit and make a list of 21 things that I feel I've learnt about myself in the last 30 years.

20 Things I've Learnt About Myself In 30 Years
There was a time that the idea of being a Mum didn't appeal to me. I was never maternal as a little girl. I didn't have a doll t...
 I don't think anyone has quite celebrated being told that they have something wrong with them like my Mum and I did in the Doctors s...
I love social media, I do. I love that at any time in the day or at any time in the night, there is something new to read, something new to...
I really hate dealing with anxiety, I REALLY hate it. I don't struggle with anxiety all of the time, like right now as I sit here an...
For so long now I've not felt like 'me'.  For nearly 14 years, that's half of my life, I've felt like 'us&#...
I wrote this post the other day about stepping out of my comfort zone and about how I was finally going to stand up and do something...
It's June and that means we are half way through the year. I could write and write about how I can't quite believe that half of 2...
I'm a firm believer in that it is OK to say when you're struggling. It's OK to ask for help. It's OK to not be OK from ti...
I'm not really one to make new years resolutions. I'm not even really one to celebrate new year as such. I like January, ...
I'm realty starting to see the importance of 'switching off' and being able to focus on one thing rather than a dozen. I ofte...
My two precious boys, You do only get one life, but one's enough if you do what you can to get it right and if you live you...
I used to be a perfectionist. But I'm not anymore.  I suffered with body dysmorphic disorder as a teen , seeing something that ...
Sometimes our hands get forced. And sometimes when they're not forced, the alternative makes you feel somewhat forced. Every now a...
When it comes to writing personal posts here on my blog I really do like to try and capture the ordinary moments, I tend to think that it...
I remember so clearly the moment that I found you, covered in dust, severely underweight. You had  been living in the rear yard of th...
You're probably thinking what an odd choice of blog post.. and you're probably wondering why I'm purposely picking out the ba...
Today I have been a Mrs for three years. I married my best friend and childhood sweetheart three years ago today outside in the beauti...
I feel so lucky to be sitting here with a happy, healthy little boy and to be 36 weeks pregnant with my second little boy. Words fail m...
I read a f antastic and really interesting blog post written by fellow blogger and my good friend Hayley from Sparkles and Stretchmarks...